50 “Saber” husbands, from 17 nationalities, the average age of the husband is 42 years, the average age of the marital relationship is 10 years, the total years of marriage covered are 500 years of marriage, which produced nearly 100 situations (the catastrophe), which I chose for you. These numbers were the result of a survey that took three years, or a little more. During which I would ask every married man I meet somewhere in this vast world about the most difficult situations he faced during his married life. I only ask, and then I leave the task to the patient husband; So that he, in turn, would tell me about his hate and desertion in the midst of married life. I am only conveying to you, and telling you stories, and as it is said: Do not kill the Messengers! From the far east to the extremities of the west, from the north of the globe to its south, I present all of these patient husbands who are tested, and who are fully mentally able - or at least what is left of them - they came out of their own will - or in part - to tell me about the calamity with which they were tested, perhaps They are patient. In this exploration of the lives of these couples, I was struck by the similarity of the experiences, despite all the cultural differences between them. For simplicity, I gave the name “Saber” to every husband who decided to share his experience with you. You are not alone!