50 “patient” couples, from 17 nationalities, the average age of the husband is 42 years, the average age of the marital relationship is 10 years, the total years of marriage covered 500 years of marriage, which produced nearly 100 situations (Nakba), which I chose for you. These numbers are the result of a survey that took three years, or a little more. During it, I would ask every married man I meet somewhere in this vast world about the most difficult situations he was exposed to during his married life. I only ask, and then I leave the task to the patient husband; So that he, in turn, would tell me about his hatred and his escape in the midst of marital life. I only convey to you, and I tell you the stories, and as it is said: Do not kill the messengers! From the far east to the west, from the north of the globe to the south, I present all these patient, hopeful husbands, with their full mental faculties - or at least what is left of them - they came with their full will - or part of it - to tell me about the ordeal with which they were tested, perhaps They are patient. In this voyage of exploration into the lives of these couples, I was struck by the similarity of experiences, despite all the cultural differences between them. For simplicity, I gave the name “Saber” to every husband who decided to share his experience with you and me. You are not alone