We always wait for someone... thinking that their presence will dissipate all our pains and engulf us in peace, imagining that then we will feel complete! And reality slaps us with the fact that the person we saw as the savior... might be the one to give us our greatest disappointment... and instead of flourishing beside them... we might wither... and retreat... and fade away... and dissolve! The other becomes our hell when we seek to numb our pains through them, and the unhealthy relationship becomes a distraction from facing ourselves, just an escape and evasion! To those who think they quench thirst... by chasing mirages!